Paired Donation Options: Guest Blogger, Martha Gershun

I am very pleased to share this space with a fellow living donor/donation advocate (BTW, her excellent book, Kidney to Share, belongs on your bookshelf right next to The Insider’s Guide to Living Kidney Donation).

Beyond direct donation: what if your friends and family don’t match?

September 28, 2023

By Martha Gershun, Guest Blogger 

As a living kidney donor, I often hear from people who have recently been diagnosed with End Stage Renal Disease (ESRD) or have a relative who is a kidney patient.  These patients have usually been given little information about the advantages of living kidney donation and almost no guidance on how to maximize their chances of finding a donor.  Many providers, who are highly experienced in the medical and surgical aspects of the procedure, have limited resources to help patients implement a successful donor search.  Not surprisingly, they do not tell patients that other transplant centers may have a model that offers a better chance of finding them a kidney.

Family and friends often want to help, but finding a match can be hard. Even close biological relatives, such as siblings, may not match.  The odds of a potential donor matching with a non-biological relative or friend can range from 1 in 100 to 1 in 100,000, depending on the patient’s blood type and other immunological markers. Upwards of one-third of willing donors are not compatible matches for their intended recipients.

There are several ways these generous people can still donate to benefit their designated kidney patient.

Many transplant clinics manage their own databases to form kidney pairs or chains, putting together a prospective donor/recipient pair with another donor/recipient pair (or multiple pairs in the case of kidney chains) to form matches.  These heroic efforts can result in several transplants over a very short period of time.  However,  they rely on the hospital to find these matches within their own patient population.

There are also national nonprofits that work to find matches across hospital systems for pair or chain exchanges, significantly expanding the set of possible donors.  The largest of these organizations, the National Kidney Registry (NKR) lists thousands of potential donors. If a kidney patient has a willing donor who is not a match, that person can donate through the National Kidney Registry to generate a voucher, which allows the patient they intend to benefit to receive a matching kidney from someone else on the Registry.  Often these vouchers are “redeemable” within weeks or months, allowing the intended kidney patient to receive a new kidney very quickly.

The National Kidney Registry also has a program called Donor Shield, which provides a multitude of benefits to the donor, including reimbursement for travel, lodging, and dependent care; reimbursement for lost wages; the possible opportunity to donate at a hospital closer to home; home blood draws; and significant support beginning with the medical and psychological evaluation for all prospective donors and extending past the surgery.

Participating in the National Kidney Registry requires the patient to be listed at one of the 102 Transplant Clinics that are paying members of the National Kidney Registry.

The Alliance for Paired Kidney Donation (APKD) does similar work, facilitating paired or chain exchanges through its network of transplant clinics in 24 states. Donors who donate as part of an APKD kidney exchange are eligible for a robust package of support and protections that include wage reimbursement; travel expense reimbursement; and donor and companion life, disability, and complication insurance.  Non-directed donors also receive APKD’s KidneyPledge, which comes in several forms, including an Advanced Donor Pledge, which will provide the opportunity to participate in an APKD kidney exchange for one named individual with known kidney disease, for the life of the named individual.

The benefits to this process are so significant – for the patient, who will likely find a living donor much faster, and for their donor, who will have the benefits of NKR’s Donor Shield or APKD’s KidneyPledge, that I encourage kidney patients to seek out a transplant clinic that is affiliated with one of these nonprofits, even if they are already listed elsewhere or have to travel to do so.

Finding a living donor can be difficult, but staying creative, flexible, and persistent can make it easier.


Martha Gershun is a nonprofit consultant and writer living in Fairway, KS with her husband Don Goldman. Her most recent book, Kidney to Share (Cornell University Press, 2021), with co-author John Lantos, MD, details her experience donating a kidney at the Mayo Clinic to a woman she read about in the newspaper. Gershun serves on the Expert Advisory Panel for the Kidney Transplant Collaborative and serves on the Board of the National Kidney Foundation Serving Kansas, Oklahoma, and Western Missouri.

UPDATE: How States Rank in Living-Donor Protections

Last year about this time I published a post about living donation-related protections and benefits, by state. As I mentioned then, while awaiting passage of a federal Living Donor Protection Act, more than half of states have enacted their own version (it’s now 31). In fact, like the one we’ve been supporting in North Carolina, some state bills are actually are more generous than the federal version (by including paid leave for state employees who donate).

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But the LDPA is just one way that states can encourage living donation. Financial supports and job protections are other critical ones. I decided to check on the status of those efforts and the resources I provided last year–to include updates and new links as needed.

Are you considering being a living donor, or have you donated recently? Do you know what the relevant tax provisions and protections are in your state–or in a state you may be looking at? It’s worth doing your homework.

The National Kidney Foundation has a terrific resource in a map you can click on to find out what donation-related laws and protections a particular state offers. Does it have a Living Donor Protection Act, or similar insurance-discrimination protections? Does it also have job-protected living donor leave for private employees? How about for state employees? What about paid leave? What about tax deductions? Even better, what about tax credits?

The American Kidney Fund website also features an invaluable resource: a state report card. It rates each state based on important donation-related measures and provides an overall rating on how well that state encourages living donation and removes barriers. Though I’m happy to report there has been some progress in the past year, it’s not nearly enough. Not surprisingly, only a few states still merit an A: Arkansas, Connecticut, and Louisiana. Glad to see that 16 now get Bs, and 14 (plus Washington, DC) have Cs, but several get Ds (including, alas, North Carolina).

Unfortunately, seven states rate an F–that is, these states failed miserably because they have no donation-related measures in place: Alabama, Michigan, Montana, New Hampshire, South Dakota, Tennessee, and Vermont. Earlier this year Nevada and Wyoming passed anti-insurance discrimination laws, moving them up to a D; Rhode Island just passed its version in late June, moving it up to a C. That brings the national average grade to a C, up from D when AKF began the report card system in 2021.

The irony–and real tragedy–is that none of these donation measures is really controversial–they shouldn’t be so damn hard to pull off. They are simple, reasonable, common-sense ways that a state can demonstrate its support for people who help save a life in this way. In fact, not only does encouraging living donation save lives, for kidney patients it reduces costs by reducing the number of people on dialysis (Medicare pays about $90,000 a year per dialysis patient).

With 103,600 people in this country on the national transplant waiting list (about 4 out of 5 needing a kidney), it seems that the very least we can do is remove the barriers to living donation.

For related posts, resources, and information on The Insider’s Guide to Living Kidney Donation, be sure to explore the rest of my website.

Word of the Day: “Eplets”

As I wrote last week, I recently was very fortunate to attend two memorable donation-related events in New York City. Between the National Kidney Registry Awards Gala and the National Kidney Donation Organization‘s living kidney donation symposium, I heard fascinating research updates, applauded impressive awards and presentations by dedicated donation advocates, and learned so much.

I met and talked with people I admire and felt an immediate bond with. That held true from the first person I met when I sat down to breakfast at the NKDO symposium, held at the New York City Bar Association–a woman in a Kidney Donor Athletes tee shirt, who said she knew me from this website(!)–to the last person I met, after they’d closed the building and people were lingering outside: a donor/writer who started a nonprofit, Rock1Kidney, and was clearly moved when I talked about being at the Guinness Records gathering of living donors at the Bean.

It always takes time to digest all the new information and remarks, and invariably one or two strong takeaways emerge. This time it was a single word and dramatic new concept for me: eplets. They’re the key to what NKR calls the “Kidney for Life Initiative.”

It turns out that compatibility is way more nuanced than I ever imagined. You may have heard about HLA antigens (you know, the 6-out-of-6 match being the so-called “perfect match”?) . Well, apparently, “matching” antigens may look the same, but they differ by their eplet pattern (think of them as “immunologic hot spots”).

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Fair warning: I am not a transplant surgeon, a scientist, or a medical writer, so please do not quote me on this. Rather, use the occasion to go ask someone who is–or, better yet, google Kidney for Life.

Dr. Dorry Segev, NYU Langone transplant surgeon (photo by Carol Offen)

I’d seen the word eplet on charts and even heard it referenced at the NKR Gala presentations. I got the basic gist from the context, but it wasn’t until Dorry Segev, transplant surgeon at NYU Langone, explained it so well at the symposium that I “got it.” From what I understand, it’s time that potential donors and transplant recipients started using the term, as in “Do you test for eplets?”

Yup, Dr. Segev says “everyone should ask” that before a donation/transplant, so be sure to add it to your list of questions. Not all transplant centers do the necessary “high-resolution typing” that can see how many eplets are in the antigens. The number of eplet mismatches can make the difference between a kidney transplant that starts to deteriorate months later, and leads to rejection, and one that can conceivably last “for life,” requiring a lower level of immunosuppressants.

Wow–what a potential game changer! Though “eplets” are new to me, and probably to you, they’re hardly new to transplant professionals, who have been studying this “latest generation in DNA sequencing technology” (per the NKR website) for years. Dr. Segev thinks that within about five years, we’ll all be talking about eplets. I know I will and I hope you will too.

For related posts, resources, and information on The Insider’s Guide to Living Kidney Donation, be sure to explore the rest of my website.

A Week to Celebrate!

Last week was quite a memorable one, jam-packed with kidney-donation milestones and special events.

First, on  June 27, my husband, son/recipient Paul, and I marked kidneyversary no. 17 with our traditional celebratory dinner out (no, no special cakes–we save those for biggies like nos. 10 and 15).

Next, two days later found me in New York City at—of all places!—the Plaza. The occasion was the lavish National Kidney Registry Awards Gala honoring living donors, with a champagne reception followed by a delicious sit-down dinner in a gorgeous hotel ballroom.

I was one of more than a hundred living donors, plus donation professionals, attending from all over the country. One of the dedicated professionals I got to chat with was Cody Wooley, a very engaging donor coordinator from St. Louis University Nephrology Division. Cody was actually one of the professionals honored, and I was delighted to have my photo taken with her before she received the award.

NKR is the world’s largest paired-exchange (aka “kidney swap”) program. Founder/CEO Garet Hil (a living donor himself) started the nonprofit following his family’s desperate search for a matching kidney for his young daughter in 2007.

Since then NKR has facilitated more than 7,000 living donations.Its goal is to increase and improve living donation while removing all the disincentives to being a donor. Here are just a few of the “what ifs” that NKR has successfully addressed, largely through its Donor Shield protections:

… a family member later needs a kidney at some unknown date? Living donors can receive a voucher for their intended recipient to get a kidney months or even many years later.

… I can’t afford the lost wages and extra childcare costs while I’m recovering? Donor Shield reimburses donors up to $17,000 (up to $12,000 for lost wages and up to $5,000 for travel/lodging and dependent care costs).

—I need a kidney transplant myself one day? Living donors through NKR have priority for a living kidney should they ever need one. (Note: Of the 7,000-plus living donations it’s facilitated, NKR has never had a donor need one.)

In addition to the dinner and the impressive stats, the evening included dramatic video presentations on (and talks by) super-athlete living donors who have done multiple marathons, ultramarathons, and summit climbs. The memorable takeaway, of course, is that donating a kidney does not mean a change in an active lifestyle. Full disclosure: most living donors are more like you or me (a healthy daily walker/zumba fan) than an ultramarathoner–but the point is that those who were runners or swimmers or whatever before donation can certainly continue to exercise their passion (other than contact sports) with just one kidney.

Then, on June 30, I attended the National Kidney Donation Organization‘s living donation symposium. There I learned so much exciting new information about kidney transplants that I’ll cover it in a separate post. Stay tuned!

For related posts, resources, and information on The Insider’s Guide to Living Kidney Donation, be sure to explore the rest of my website.

Why NOT Donate Life?

As you surely know by now, April is National Donate Life Month. The vast majority of my posts, naturally, are about living donation and transplant and kidneys. I haven’t written much about the more well known topic of organ donation—that is, after death. It’s one of those subjects that make some people uncomfortable (I was one of them, when I was young).

That said, I’m going to give it a try anyway and hope that you’ll keep reading. No matter what I’m writing about, you may have noticed by now, I prefer a light touch and maybe go for a smile or two. So I’m not going to berate anyone who’s not already signed up to be a donor. And I’m not going to drone on about how important it is and how it’s our duty to our community yada yada. You already know that, right? (If not, I might note that more than 100,000 people are waiting for a lifesaving organ in this country—most of them for a kidney—and about 17 people die each day because they didn’t get one in time.)

So what am I going to do here? I’m just going to ask a few simple questions:

1-What percentage of people in this country do you suppose die in a way that even makes it possible for their organs to be donated?

2-If a registered organ donor is dying in a hospital, do you imagine that the doctors and nurses will throw in the towel that much sooner?

3-Are you afraid you might not be “completely dead” when they get ready to recover your organs?

Answers:

  1. Less than 1% (If you’re stunned by that news, you’re not alone. Years ago my guess would have been less than half, but maybe 20% or 30%, but I honestly had no idea.) In other words, the pool is very small.
  2. First of all, they don’t even know—or care—whether you’re a donor or not. Their only concern is saving you, their patient (remember “first, do no harm”?). Secondly, transplant teams don’t get involved until after death is pronounced. In fact, most deceased donors actually come from hospitals that don’t even have transplant centers.
  3. Lots of tests are done—even more than usual–to make absolutely sure that someone is in fact dead.

So, if you’ve read this far, thank you! If you weren’t already signed up, I hope this post has given you something to think about and maybe you’ll go to organdonor.gov–or any of a dozen or more sites (don’t wait to renew your driver’s license!)–to register. If you’re already registered, please share this post with others who may not be or who might know someone who would like to share it.

For related posts, resources, and information on The Insider’s Guide to Living Kidney Donation, be sure to explore the rest of my website.

Kidney Patient Summit on Capitol Hill

Yes, I finally made it! I made it all the way to the Capitol earlier this month for in-person meetings.

Taken during a brief break between legislative meetings. That’s me in the front row (in the beige raincoat)!
With teammates Necole and Dre Roundtree, left, and Alan Levy.
With Matthew Fitting, NKF’s Grassroots Advocacy Director.

During a hectic but fun afternoon of training and getting to know my delightful team members (pictured at right), we got tips not only on the legislative “asks,” but also on the fine points of meeting with congressional staffers. In fact, we even heard from two congressional staffers who knew the topics firsthand: one of them had been a National Kidney Foundation advocate himself, another was a recent living donor!

So what were our asks this time? Alas, if they look familiar that’s simply because we’ve been there before with the same critical requests:

1-Co-sponsor the Living Donor Protection Act (you’ve read a lot about this one both here and elsewhere through the years): To end discrimination by insurance companies against living donors just because of having donated a kidney.

2-Co-sponsor the Improving Access to Home Dialysis Act: A much newer piece of legislation, this would make it easier for those who want to do dialysis in their own home (right now only about 15% of people have dialysis at home because it’s not a simple matter–it requires training and support). The act would provide lots of in-home support for the first 90 days, among other benefits. This legislation would obviously be a boon for people in rural areas who may live well over an hour’s drive from the nearest dialysis center.

3-Support increases in funding for kidney research, innovation, and early detection. We asked for a substantial increase in funding for the CDC’s Chronic Kidney Disease Initiative plus increases on a par with other important diseases in the National Institutes of Diabetes, Digestive and Kidney Disease (NIDDK). While other major diseases have seen dramatic improvements in recent years, kidney disease outcomes, on the contrary, have gotten worse.

The team with Elizabeth Adkins, Rep. Foushee’s legislative. staffer.
Our team with Laney O’Shea, Rep. Jeff Jackson’s staffer.
With Gray Rixey, Sen. Thom Tillis’s legislative staffer.
With Jacob Dunklin, Sen. Ted Budd’s legislative staffer.

A Playful Homage to My (Remaining) Kidney

In honor of National Kidney Month, I try to do my part as an advocate–and a living donor–to spread awareness of kidney disease, kidney donation, and organ transplant. I’ve had a healthy respect for kidneys ever since I first accompanied my son to his dialysis sessions many years ago–before I gave him my kidney in 2006, of course. If, like me, high school biology class was not your favorite, reading about what kidneys do may make you run the other way–or at least stop scrolling. So, I offer here this playful homage to kidneys–in an updated blog post. I hope you read it through to the end and share it with anyone who would otherwise run the other way.

Like most people, I was born with two kidneys and they’ve served me well. Since 2006, the left one has been working in my son’s body and doing a terrific job. That’s the one that gets all the attention. So, at the beginning of National Kidney Month, I thought it only fair to devote this blog post to that unsung hero, my remaining kidney.

It (he? she?) has worked solo ever since its partner moved to my son’s body so many years ago. Is it lonely? Does it feel abandoned, I wonder.

I’m a bit ashamed to admit that she (yes, I’ve decided it’s a she) doesn’t even have a name. After an informal contest among friends and family, my son’s (formerly my) kidney was dubbed “the Comeback Kidney.”

But my righty has never clamored for attention or tried to claim the spotlight from her perch above my waist toward the back. She’s been doing a masterful job, taking up the slack ever since her partner upped and left, with nary a complaint.

Initially, as was expected, I lost 25% to 35% of overall kidney function. But my little fist-sized pal gradually got a little plumper, and my kidney function built up to a normal level. As I’ve written before, even if she hadn’t managed her own “comeback,” a slightly higher new normal for a living donor is just fine.

Not only did she rise to the task, in fact, she exceeded expectations. Filtering waste from my blood, reflected in creatinine level, is probably her biggest job.  A “normal” creatinine reading for most women is under about 1.0. At my last check-up, mine was .81, enviable at any age. Even my GFR, a formula that uses creatinine plus age, sex, (no longer race!), and weight to estimate overall kidney function, is an impressive .76 (anything over 60 is normal). It’s common for anyone’s kidney function to decline with age, so at nearly 75 years old, I’m very proud of that reading.

If keeping toxins out of my blood were all that she did, I’d still be justifiably proud of her. But she does so much more. She keeps my blood pressure down, removes extra fluid, makes urine, balances nutrients, makes red blood cells to keep me from being anemic… I could go on. Think about it: she’s been doing all that alone. You’d never know it from my lab work, of course, which would be impressive for a healthy nondonor of any age.

Thank you for all that you do, righty! (True, it’s not the most original name, but I think I’ll use it till I can think of something more creative.)

I’ve never seen a lung-shaped swimming pool, have you? Or a pancreas bean? Other than the heart, can you think of any bodily organ that’s so recognizable and endearing enough to inspire cuddly plush toys? Obviously, there’s good reason for that honor.

For related posts, resources, and information on The Insider’s Guide to Living Kidney Donation, be sure to explore the rest of my website.

Happy to Pay It Forward

Recently, I was excited to receive a very happy update to a long, frustrating quest for a kidney. Stormi Murtie, a North Carolina woman who had contacted me last year when she learned of our book, had been tirelessly trying to get a kidney for a loved one to whom she could not donate. She’s now getting ready to pay it forward by sharing her healthy spare kidney with someone else. I thought reading her moving story might give hope to anyone who has ever despaired of getting “the call.” (I took the liberty of adding emphasis to a few passages that seem particularly important or instructive.)

Stormi writes:

Two years ago my then 32 year old firefighter step-son Brecon contracted a very rare life threatening condition called Goodpasture Syndrome. It did not kill him, but it killed his kidneys. Left in total renal failure, his new normal was 4 hour dialysis sessions 3x’s per week. His body could not tolerate home hemodialysis, so after his work day ended he would spend hours at the dialysis center. It was exhausting. With us in NC and Brecon in FL my husband made countless trips back and forth and we learned everything we could about renal failure, antibodies, point systems, hospital protocols, kidney transplants–and living kidney donors. From books, articles, organizations, we poured over every snippet of info we could. The process can be extremely complicated, and feels frustratingly slow.

We learned that much of the info we received was from a pre-Covid system and did not apply. The medical community had changed and with it many of the systems previously in place were stretched very thin or no longer applicable to our situation. I came to understand the incredible need for living donors of all ages, and I was committed to being healthy enough to be approved.

Slow motion forward to August 2022: after extensive medical appointments, a new lifestyle, testing at Shands in Gainesville, and 25 lbs lighter, I was approved to be a donor in a “paired donor exchange” program.

A clearly happy Stormi and her undeniably healthy-looking stepson, Brecon, after his transplant.

While waiting for the computer to uncover any viable options, Brecon was also on the waiting list at 2 Florida hospitals for a deceased donor kidney, and multiple friends and family were being tested to see if they were a match. Wherever a viable kidney could be located first, we were casting as wide a net as possible. Since he was highly sensitized, finding a match was very difficult. Suddenly and unbelievably, after many false starts, on November 7, 2022 Brecon received that call. And after waiting all day for a thumbs up or down, he received a kidney from a selfless family of a deceased donor. He is currently doing well and we are so hopeful he continues to thrive with his new kidney. After two years, the very first trip Brecon was able to make was to us.   

Now:  It is time for me to pay it forward. Details are still in flux but I have also received the call that a chain donation is on the table. With me as the altruistic first cog in a chain of donations, three wonderful people are in queue to finally receive their transplants (nationwide, over 93,000 are on the kidney transplant waiting list).

One day soon, multiple surgeons, donors and recipients will converge in Gainesville, and like a fine-tuned performance, an intricate ballet of donors and recipients, following multiple operations, lives will be changed. I am honored to be able to donate my kidney to help a stranger in need, to ultimately pay it forward just like the selfless donor family did for Brecon.  

For related posts, resources, and information on my new book, The Insider’s Guide to Living Kidney Donation, be sure to explore the rest of my website.

Good News and Bad News

If you’re anything like me, you’ll want to read the bad news first. (I’ve never understood why anyone would want to hear good news first, feel terrific, only to then be brought back down and left with sad or depressing news.)

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So, first the bad news:

The Living Donor Protection Act, which was first introduced in 2014, still hasn’t crossed the finish line on its way to becoming law. It would provide basic protections against discrimination by insurance companies, as well as job protections for taking time off work to donate. Remember the latest big push during the meetings with lawmakers we had in the fall? We were SO close to finally getting this thing passed. I’m not sure if it’s still technically possible, but it’s as good as impossible. That means we start all over in the next session of Congress. We”ll also need a new House sponsor because Rep. Jaime Herrera Beutler wasn’t reelected.

Now the good news!

Even though it didn’t make it into law, the LDPA had the most cosponsors ever: 158 in the House and 43 in the Senate. That has to translate into increased bipartisan support in the next Congress. In other words, we shouldn’t need to start from scratch. They all know about the act now, and, given that nearly 100,000 people in this country are waiting for a lifesaving kidney, most lawmakers understand its importance.

$$$ for Kidney Disease Awareness and More: Congress just released its final appropriations bill that includes substantial increases in funding for federal programs that promote kidney disease awareness, education, and research. Sure, we need more living donors and must remove obstacles to donation, and yes we need an implantable artificial kidney, but ultimately the best way to meet the critical need for kidneys and save lives by reducing kidney failure, is to PREVENT chronic kidney disease in the first place. So, education and research are absolutely essential.

The Immuno Drug Bill (aka Comprehensive Immunosuppressive Drug Coverage for Kidney Transplant Patients Act), which finally passed at the end of 2020, goes into effect very soon: January 1, 2023. Believe it or not, this one had been kicking around way longer than the LDPA: 20 years! The kidney community has been fighting to change the law that arbitrarily cuts off Medicare coverage for transplant recipients who don’t otherwise qualify for it–for example, those under 65– after 36 months post transplant. The Immuno bill now ensures that people with no other health plan to pay for their critical antirejection meds will be able to have these drugs covered for the life of the transplant.

Eligible individuals can start applying for the Medicare immuno drug coverage right now. If you have questions, contact the toll-free help line at 855.NKF.CARES (855.653.2273) or nkfcares@kidney.org .

For related posts, resources, and information on my book, The Insider’s Guide to Living Kidney Donation,

please be sure to explore the rest of my website.

Thanksgiving Dinners and Donors

Every Thanksgiving at my house, we go around the table after dinner and talk about what we’re each thankful for–a fairly typical American tradition that for us started when my adult kids were little kids.The usual topics come up, of course: being together, good health, good news, good food. Naturally, one not-so-typical topic also has come up every year for nearly two decades: kidneys. So I decided to devote this Thanksgiving blog post to kidneys and living donation.

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I’ll start. I am thankful for

  • my right kidney (aka Righty). My son, Paul, is thankful for my left (both are doing well, thanks). Righty has managed to give me what would be a solidly normal kidney function for someone my age with two kidneys–and she’s done it all alone!
  • the transplant team at the University of North Carolina Kidney Center that supported both of us skillfully and caringly throughout the donation and transplant process 16 and a half years ago.

So much has happened in the field of living donation since then, and prospective donors can now take advantage of options that didn’t practically exist in the early 2000s. So, even though my family didn’t benefit, I’m thankful that the recent donors I know and the would-be donors who have written to me in recent years can. Here are just a few of those options:

  • Paired donation—not around when I donated—enables someone who isn’t a match for their intended recipient to donate a kidney to someone else to enable their recipient to get another, better-matched one, when he or she needs it. Often they donate to someone they don’t know–a “nondirected donation.”
  • Expanded financial assistance for living donors–including nondirected ones–to cover lost wages and donation-related expenses like travel, childcare, and eldercare. In addition to organizations such as the National Kidney Registry and the Alliance for Paired Kidney Donation (see Resources), a big federal program that for many years covered only travel expenses–the National Living Donor Assistance Center (NLDAC)–has substantially expanded its financial assistance in the past couple of years. Thankfully, we managed without all that back then, but our situation was a best-case scenario in many ways.
  • State-level living donor protections in 28 states, offering benefits that range from basic job protections to paid leave for state employees to tax credits. The list is growing while the federal version gets tantalizingly close to passage.

Now it’s your turn. If kidneys and/or living donation is a big topic in your house too, you might want to reflect on these worthy items for thanks giving after you finish your pie. Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours!

For related posts, resources, and information on The Insider’s Guide to Living Kidney Donation, be sure to explore the rest of my website.