Tag: Brenda E. Cortez

Gifting Books about the Greatest Gift?

My tastes in reading have always been pretty varied. I was never much of a history buff, but I discovered a back door through well-written, riveting memoirs and biographies. Similarly, though I don’t have a science background, I’ve learned so much about organ donation and transplantation through authors’ personal and professional experiences. In recent years I’ve enjoyed reading a wide range of social sciences, which have reminded me how much I enjoyed my college psych, philosophy, and sociology courses.

So I thought I’d share here some of my favorite donation-related book titles, in case you’re looking for a holiday gift for someone who has either a personal or professional interest in organ donation–or just a curious mind about a very serious and fascinating public health crisis. To me, these are classics (yes, of course, I’ve included my book) that belong on everybody’s bookshelf (listed alphabetically):

Because of Organ Donation: A Collection of Inspiring Stories Celebrating the Gift of Life–Brenda E. Cortez This poignant anthology looks at organ donation from diverse perspectives: living donors, families of deceased donors, and recipients. I wrote about it in an earlier blog post; the author has since published more donation-related anthologies (learn about her children’s books here).

The Fear Factor: How One Emotion Connects Altruists, Psychopaths, and Everyone In-Between–Abigail Marsh Marsh is a psychologist/neuroscientist with a special interest in altruism. She has done brain studies of nondirected donors and psychopaths. Her very accessible explanations, relatable anecdotes, and fine writing combine to make this a fascinating and memorable read.

The Insider’s Guide to Living Kidney Donation: Everything You Need to Know If You Give (or Get) the Greatest Gift—Carol Offen and Elizabeth Crais. Read what reviewers and readers have to say.

Kidney to Share—Martha Gershun and John D. Lantos. In alternating chapters with Dr. Lantos, a physician and a bioethicist, Gershun vividly and insightfully describes her personal experience of donating. She candidly shares both her gratification as a donor and her frustration in contending with the unimaginable obstacles on her path. Both authors raise thought-provoking points on how the system could and should work better.

When Death Becomes Life: Notes from a Transplant Surgeon–-Joshua D. Mezrich. Dr. Mezrich takes us inside the entire process of transplantation. He movingly describes talking with the families of deceased donors before ever going into the OR. He writes sensitively and evocatively of his experiences with patients and colleagues–for me, the highlight of the book. The first half, on the history of transplantation and the medical breakthroughs, is fascinating reading, though the medical details can be heavy lifting for some readers.

For related posts and information on my book, The Insider’s Guide to Living Kidney Donation, be sure to explore the rest of my website.

Howl the Owl and Brenda Cortez Help Kids Grasp Organ Donation

I first met Brenda online a couple of years ago through a Facebook living donor support group. We were both so moved by having donated that we became strong advocates for donation awareness and went a step further in deciding to write books about donation (hers for young children, mine for adults). I was excited to meet the warm, energetic Wisconsinite in person last year in Chicago during that memorable weekend when we helped set the Guinness World Record for Living Donors. We’ve followed and cheered on each other’s donation advocacy activities ever since.

My book with Betsy Crais, “The Greatest Gift: The Insider’s Guide to Living Kidney Donation”—in its final stages as we look for a publisher—was conceived to help potential donors and recipients navigate the donation/transplant process and the emotional challenges. If you think we adults have trouble grasping and dealing with donation, transplant, and dialysis in the family, just imagine how bewildering the topic is for little kids. So, I’m delighted to see that Brenda’s children’s series on donation has really taken off. The books, most of which star an adorable little owl named Howl (which stands for Help Others With Love), help kids make some sense of these frightening situations, whether they’re experiencing the condition themselves or, more commonly, a parent or grandparent is.

Brenda’s first book, “My Mom Is Having Surgery,” was prompted by her daughter’s college application essay that told how inspired she was by her mother’s donating her kidney a few years earlier to another mom she’d known only casually. Not long after the first book, Brenda created Howl to help spread her message of kindness and awareness of organ donation. Among the titles, which are delightfully illustrated, are “Howl Gets a Heart” (yup, the little guy is a transplant recipient!) and “Howl Learns About Kidneys and Dialysis”; her latest is “Howl Goes to the Races,” where he gets to meet race car driver and organ donation advocate Joey Gase on the occasion of Organ Donation Awareness Day.

Brenda and Howl pose with a visitor to her table at an event. Howl has helped kids of all ages make sense of organ donation.

Part of the proceeds from sales of all of Brenda’s donation books, and the popular plush Howls, go to support Donate Life America https://www.donatelife.net/books/. Brenda has taken Howl and his message several steps further: the plush Howl goes along with her to blood donations, reassuring visits to kids in the hospital, educational school fairs, elementary school classroom readings, the biannual Transplant Games, donation walks… he gets around.

In fact, a Howl mascot has become a popular figure at community events in Wisconsin and on Brenda’s travels. She’s incredibly industrious: she ordered a mascot costume online and then had it transformed into Howl. Brenda would love to be able to send it off when events request his presence, but the shipping costs are prohibitive. That’s why she’s looking for a sponsor whose name could be displayed on the back of Howl’s tee shirt, to defray the costs. If you or your organization might be interested in promoting this charming donation mascot and/or helping to get the books into hospitals and transplant centers, you can reach her at Brenda@howltheowl.com

In recent months, Howl has even become a world traveler. Fellow donor (and one of the organizers of the Living Donor Rally) Kate Griggs has helped coordinate sending a little plush Howl on overseas trips with living donors, along with Howl’s very own business cards (much cuter than mine, by the way), and banners promoting living donation.

Thank you, little Howl, for spreading the word about organ donation and helping to make the world a kinder place. Can’t wait to meet you in person!