As a living kidney donor to my son, I can certainly attest to how rewarding, gratifying, meaningful and life changing the experience usually is. It’s also really complicated.
It would be complicated under the best of circumstances because, as we make clear in The Insider’s Guide to Living Kidney Donation, being a kidney donor is not just a medical decision. It has emotional, social, familial and financial ramifications. That’s why, in addition to information and resources, we included first-person accounts of people with different perspectives on the process.
The innate complexity of the experience is of course further complicated by the medical complexities of donor-recipient matching and the daunting intricacies of this country’s organ allocation system.
Perhaps, like me, you have a loved one who needs a kidney, or you know someone who’s donated and you know how much it meant to them, whether they gave to a family member or to a stranger. So you’re seriously considering taking this important step yourself.
Learn everything you can about it.

So–assuming you’ve already read our book!–go immediately to Glenna Frey’s excellent, extremely thorough new book. In clear, nontechnical language, she succinctly explains kidney donation, kidney disease and treatments and lays out all the stages in the donation process in detail, helpfully summarizing everything at the end of each chapter.
Glenna is a living donor herself and a well-known donation advocate. She co-founded Kidney Donor Conversations with daughter Amanda to educate people about kidneys and donation. Like my friend and co-author, Betsy, Glenna’s family has been touched by Polycystic Kidney Disease (PKD). Her husband is doing well on his second kidney transplant, and Amanda also has been diagnosed with the hereditary disease.
Glenna’s interest and expertise in the subject stems also from being a nephrology nurse for forty years, both in a transplant unit and in dialysis clinics. Given her dual personal and professional perspective, the accuracy and thoroughness of the information was not surprising. But I suspect that the refreshing clarity and accessibility of the text may also owe something to the influence of Amanda, whose career as a therapist has made her adept at making advanced concepts more accessible to lay readers.
Kidney donors need to be prepared with as much information as possible. This book belongs in any prospective donor’s library.
For related posts and information on my book, The Insider’s Guide to Living Kidney Donation, be sure to explore the rest of my website and my articles at Medium.com/@caroloffen.